You are not the bedtime problem. You're the bedtime tool.
By eight o'clock they are tired enough. What they can't do yet is the last part alone — the settling. So they borrow the nearest thing that already knows how: your arm, your hair, the sound of you breathing.
Nothing is wrong with that. It just doesn't survive 2 a.m.
RYVA moves the settling onto something that lives in their bed. Ribbed ears and a tail give busy hands a job. A low memory-foam contour keeps a small head still. And it works the same whether it's you, Dad, Nana or the sitter in the doorway.